Question by home peep:
Parents: do you keep an open mind when talking to kids about sex?
Do you guys openly talk about sex, benefits and not so benefit from sex? some parents openly talk about their one night stands or even thier chastity until marriage... do you talk to your kids about what sex means and what its for and such? or do you let them find out on thier own and leave the topic alone? why? if you could say something to your kids about sex what would it be?
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Answer by Publius
My dad never talked about sex and my mom's idea of "the talk" was to hand me a condom and say "I can handle the fact that my 15 year old son is getting some, even when I can't go out and get some, but Don't even think about doing it in my house".
Where else was I supposed to do it? Really?
When my son gets to be about 12 or so I'm going to probably have to say "If you ever get a girl pregnant, you are going to have to figure out how to take care of that baby on your own, abortion is not a means of birth control. If you are old enough to have sex, then you are old enough to take responsibility for your actions. Don't expect a consoling hug from me if you get an STD because I'm not going to be anywhere near that nasty stuff. If you want to talk about anything, don't be afraid to ask." Simple enough right? After that I'll be willing to talk about some of my experiences and why I regret them, but nothing about his mother or step mother, that would scar a kid for life.
I don't see why it has to be an in depth conversation unless they know nothing about it. The how's and why's should be talked about earlier than that when it comes to "where do baby's come from". But as far as them being involved in sex, they should get that talk separately.
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